Today’s lesson in school focused on: “There are no bullies.”
These are words made to disable others by adults who place too much importance on labels. A bully is a label. Adults who have been accusing others of being bullies are not prepared to let go of their pain. This gives them the authority over deciding who is morally right and who is morally wrong. ( The problem of duality)
Everyone is stuck in arguments of ‘getting over’ or how can someone tell me that. This is a two way patronizing state. There is no getting over ever required once one learns to retell the story and recognize pain as merely a word, feeling or thought and the means to your life story.
Everyone is looking for empowerment and finding it through words written by another.
This isn’t empowerment, inspiration maybe.
It is the consumption of empowerment which is equally blinding in the world of illusion (maya).
Empowerment doesn’t exist outside.
You already are.
Warrior lesson this week: Honour
A changemaker warrior is not someone who has to talk about what he does, prove that she can do it or display what they have done. The results of their efforts will be harvested by others while they the changemaker warriors are already busy solving another problem.
Rewards are not what they are looking for. They are only focused on the value in their intention.
They vow to never hurt anyone and especially themselves by looking in the mirror. They do not need to put others down, mock them or compare to make what they do seem better.
There is no such thing as a bully or a victim. No warrior will fight for change because s/he has been a bully or a victim.
A warrior is the change. He reflects.
© Reshma Valliappan 2016